Just what are we expecting? by Paula

Paula has taught me so much about adoption and parenting adopted children in her blog. Because she knows adoption from the perspective of the adoptive parent and the adopted child, she helps us learn to open our mind and heart to a bigger picture.
In this particular post, she stops on the hight expectations we often put on the shoulders of our kids when we should in fact accept them as they are.
Just what we are expecting?

4 comments:

Steffie B. said...

I will read this tonight after the kids are in bed! Thanks for sharing!

LaLa said...

I love reading her posts : )

Anonymous said...

The one thing I learned that I didn't expect was that I would spend so much energy just keeping our kid happy. I always want him happy, never sad. And that takes a great deal of effort to do.

Yoli said...

That post rocks. I love her writings, she is so insightful, honest and open. Honestly the best teacher around.